The problem with men who fall in love with their best friend is their systematic tendency to set aside their own feelings, wants, and needs. Their first priority is making the lady happy, trying to never offend her. Rather than bringing them closer, in reality it is ruining their chances. That is a BIG difference! An Alpha man puts his needs first. The first step to becoming more than friends is to create a barrier between you and her.

Ultimately, casual sex isn't all that casual, and there are a lot of factors we should consider before hitting the sheets with a friend. Here are some top tips from sex experts. Sure, sex can 'just happen' but make sure you are on the same page. If it keeps happening, and one person may develop feelings, that's when things can get awkward. Set rules.

Having sex with your friends is a polarizing activity. I am not a big fan of getting drunk and just seeing what happens in any aspect of my life, to be honest, but especially this one! To be very clear: this article is specifically about fucking your friends in a onetime event or limited-engagement few times, and then remaining platonic friends with them. I am simply offering a road map for anyone who has ever wanted to fuck a friend and then continue a healthy friendship with that person afterwards that may or may not include fucking again from time to time. I spoke with more than 30 queer humans while writing this piece and here are some of the reasons why they enjoy having sex with their pals:.